Do you ever feel like you are just too tired to make love anymore? You might not realize, but perhaps you have been putting Facebook, or late night telly before your partner. Not exactly a recipe for a happy relationship. So, if you are finding yourself too tired for sex. What to do?
1. Identify sneaky time sucks
When was the last time you said you were too tired to browse Facebook or your favorite design blogs? Uh-huh. Newsflash: Those 20 minutes you think you just spent reading dumb status updates or looking at kitchens really took an hour. (That’s the magic of the web—time flies.) That’s also an hour you could have been shagging your significant other.
2. Energy map your day
Ask yourself when you feel most sexy (or just flat out horny). Also ask yourself when that “up for it” vibe goes bye-bye. Are you feeling frisky right after your morning shower but bloated and lazy after dinner?
Compare times with your partner and see where they intersect. Maybe “decompression hour” right after work would be better spent “decompressing” under the sheets. Then again, perhaps it’s a rise-and-shine kind of thing for you guys. Or, you might just have to switch off who gets to do it when they’re in the mood. Bottom line: Pay more attention to your prime sexy time.
3. Kick the TV out of the bedroom already
How many times do we have to say it? There are countless studies linking a flat screen in the bedroom to a flatlining sex life. One Italian study even claimed that a bedroom boob tube reduces couple’s sexual activity by 50 percent. If you’re awake enough to watch Lockup Raw at 2a.m., you’re awake enough to do the deed (hey, lazy sex can still be fun).
4. Use your imagination
Making an effort and perhaps, scheduling sex (yes, we just wrote that terribly unsexy phrase) doesn’t have to turn the dirty deed into a chore. A little planning is actually a great excuse to get adventurous. Make a date to meet for a little noontime nookie during your lunch breaks. If budget allows, get a hotel room once in awhile and treat it like a torrid affair. See how titillating schedules can be?
You can also spice up your sex escapades by experimenting with sex toys from sites like loveplugs.co.
Do you have any other tips on how to bump up your sex energy?
Source: The Nest